Oh Martin - so sorry about your Mum - of course it's good that she was peaceful and that is a great blessing, but still very sad for you and your family because she was such a huge personality. Thinking of you all with much love ...

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Dear Peter ...

You supported me so nicely when I lost my own mother and you were so right: when departure occurs in a surrounding that is one of tenderness and care, one should be grateful since it's the nicest thinkable way to say farewell to a beloved. What you might be missing though in the days to come, is the evidence of her love and her tender presence. I wish you therefore strength, and trust you will find support in your immediate circle of kins and among friends ...

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Hi Peter, Martin, Rob, Flash and all the family ...

It is hard to know what I can add to all the wonderful tributes which express better than I could what a wonderful Mum and grandmother you had.
We only had the privilege of knowing Sheila for such a short period of her long life but I think we formed a close bond in that time. Sheila and I were drawn together in the beginning by our mutual love of gardening and we were forever collecting cuttings from each other's gardens (me more than her!!).
Over time we shared lots of things which drew us closer, yoo-hoos and cuppas, lots of laughs, Sheila's countless re-telling of funny stories from her teaching days, trekking back and forth across the road, ....and of course sad things too like being there with Sheila when Jerry died. We still miss not having her over the road.
I am so glad that Sheila got to spend her last years with you so happily, and that she had such a gentle, peaceful passing just as nature intended after such a long and happy life. What a wonderful gift you gave her! I know that you must feel great sadness and emptiness right now because of who Sheila was to you and how big a part she played in your lives, especially in the recent past when she needed you so much and you needed to care for her. A big part of your recent lives was devoted to caring for Sheila, and it will take time to get used to not having that role anymore. As time passes though and the raw grief lessens, you will have only happy memories and no regrets about how she lived and how she died to give you comfort. My own father had a major stroke at 52 and had to go into a nursing home where he died 25 years later having lost all his friends over time as well as two of his children. It is terrible to have to remember a much-loved parent like that.
I found myself surprisingly upset by Sheila's death, although I was expecting it and knew that she was ready to go. I really loved her. I guess any death also causes us to reflect on what has been and what is to come, and of course my own mother's future is always in my mind as well as my beloved sister and brother who both died very young and are still painfully missed.
I put the songs you sang to Sheila on my iPod and have been sitting quietly in the garden listening to them and thinking about her. I'm sure she is up in heaven having a cuppa and a good old catch-up with Jerry and Harry right now!!
Olivia, Sheila will always be with us as long as you are around as you have her same gentle, beautiful soul. You are your grandmother's grand-daughter for sure. I send you special love and hugs to comfort you in your sadness. I didn't get to know Alice well but I am sure she shares the same qualities.

Much love and deepest sympathy to you all. Look after each other. We hope very much to see you in Adelaide when you hold the memorial service here ...

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Dear Martin and Peter

I am so saddened to hear your news. Sheila was an inspiration, a great character and much loved. I know you will all be very sad, and very proud of her life, but how wonderful that you cared for her in the way that you did, especially bringing her to Kangaroo Valley when she needed it ...

My deepest sympathies ...

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Dear Peter,

It is with great sadness that I learnt of the death of your beloved Mother ... My deepest condolences to you and your brothers and my thoughts are with you at this sad time.

I am deeply comforted to learn that Sheila passed away peacefully at home without having to suffer a long illness. Although I have only met her once, she made a lasting impression on me and I shall always remember her as a happy lady who lived life to the full. Yes, her life is something to be celebrated.

With warmest regards ...

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Good morning ... I have just read the magnificent tributes to Sheila ... and there is very little left to say that is new or original. She, and you too, have all been loved by so many - for very good reason - and those tributes must bring such deserved satisfaction. Although I have not been in KV during these last months, there were many moments of having been there, thanks to your dedication to almost daily reports on the blog ... She was all those wonderful things people have written about - truly a woman before her time and an inspiration to to all who knew her. I know you must be so very proud she was your mother, as I am that she was my aunt.

My love always ...

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Dear Martin and Peter,

Thank you for including me in the group to receive the sad news of Sheila's passing. She was so fortunate to have had such loving care at the end of her life. And of course, you were so fortunate to have had such a wonderful mother. I feel quite privileged to have met her in Adelaide if only for a short time during one of my visits there. She clearly exuded such energy and had such a spark about her. I only wish that I were not living a hemisphere away as I can imagine that the memorial services to her will indeed be truly memorable and I would love to be there. While of course sad, I can imagine that the tribute you will pay her will include laughter as well as tears. You and your family and friends have cared for her so beautifully in her waning time on this plane. I know of course that you will miss her, and trite though it may sound, the many memories of her plus the incredible support of all your friends I imagine will be a huge comfort.

(We) send you our love and condolences ...

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Hi Martin and Peter, so sorry to hear about your Mum, but clearly it was time. You must all be pretty exhausted, emotionally and physically.

How lovely that she was able to share this beautiful valley with you (and our lovely community) for her last years. We didn't get to know her well, but she always looked like she was having a good, if quiet, time when we'd run into her at a concert or wherever, and I imagine she made many new friends here. The valley is a place that 'takes people in'. I hope she felt she was part of our community, even though she came to it late in life.

I hope your day was loving and peaceful. We hope to join you for the celebration of her life. She sounds like she was a wonderful woman.

Love ...

(As to the Great Designer and Big Questions, I shall be re-reading the various thoughts and may be prompted to join in...)

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Very sad news but I wasn't surprised given her recent state of declining health. Sheila had a wonderful life (from what I could tell) and she died at peace with the world and knowing that she'd made a big contribution to many lives. I imagine there have been 1000s of people whom she helped, much of it as the wife of the Registrar of one of Australia's most important universities, in addition to caring for her immediate and extended family.

Much love to all and thanks for keeping me up-to-date via the Sheila blog. I was reading it every couple of days until I went overseas on 23rd Jan ...

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Hi Wes,

Hoping the family has recovered from the initial loss. Thanks for the photo. Mum looks in peace. It was time for her to go. I suspect she was waiting for her ratbag son Wes to return before she took off. I'm glad you made it and that you all were there.

Take care and say hi to your brothers.

From now on, think about living your life to the fullest and not getting cranky often. You don't have to worry about Mum anymore. Life is short.

Hugs ...

In response, Rob wrote:

I am usually very un-cranky, sometimes react when people keep talking and refuse to listen to the good advice I am giving - well that's my version anyway

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Dear Martin,

I met you once when I used to look after Sheila's garden and you had come to Adelaide for a visit. For a few years up until 2002 I would spend some time on a Saturday morning working in Sheila's garden before moving on to her friends, Jack and Evelyn Elhay's house to do the same. During that time I got to know Sheila and Jerry well. When I arrived each week, Sheila and I would potter around the garden and discuss what needed to be done. She very much loved her garden and, when I knew her, she would have liked to have been able to do more in the garden. She seemed to sincerely appreciate having someone to share her joy of gardening with.

After an hour or so, Sheila would call me in for tea. She would have prepared a delicious morning tea with a cuppa and cakes or biscuits and some fruit. We would sit and chat over tea. We would talk about the garden and Sheila would often tell me all about Harry and her four boys - of whom she was so proud. She loved Kangaroo Valley and spoke so highly of it that I have a yet to be accomplished ambition to go there myself. I would occasionally bring my eldest son, Dannion, with me on a Saturday morning to help with the gardening and Sheila would make a right fuss of him which he loved. He seemed to spend more time chatting with Sheila than helping with the gardening. But that was OK, he was only very little then. My wife and I found out that we were expecting our second child early one Saturday morning in December 1999 and although sworn to secrecy at the time, I had to tell someone. So Sheila was the first person I told. Naturally she was delighted and made a great fuss of me.

I got to know Jerry quite well too. Having been a musician in Adelaide for some time myself and having started my musical career at Adelaide University (although in a very different time and genre from Jerry), we had much to talk about. When I finally finished my studies and became a teacher in 2001, I got a short contract as a music teacher (although I was trained to teach Science) at Heathfield High School. I asked Jerry to visit my class and so he came and gave a jazz workshop with my students.

In 2002 I moved with my family to Mount Gambier. I visited Sheila and Jerry once that year on a visit to Adelaide, but lost touch after that. I have some great memories of Sheila. She was a lovely, warm and (despite her many great accomplishments) humble person. She did not judge people but accepted them for who they were. She has, since I first met her, been an inspiration and role model for me and, I believe, for Dannion who, despite only being very little when he knew her, still remembers her with great affection.

I would like to pass on to you and to your extended family my deepest sympathy. I am happy to have had the opportunity to get to know such a wonderful person as your lovely mother, Sheila.

Yours Sincerely,

Stephen Hards

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Wes,

Sorry, but not surprised, to hear of your Mum's death. Condolences from Judith and self. I'm glad that I re-made contact a couple of years ago. Our contacts in the 1950s were many and warm. She always had an impish sense of humour, and a high level of tolerance. So, fond memories.

By nice coincidence, I saw Martin here in Canberra in early December. He was leading his local choir at one of the David Pereira (eminent local cellist) concerts. We had quite a long talk, and Martin told me of Sheila's inability and reluctance to eat, her declining weight, but (otherwise) her overall equanimity.

Dying peacefully, at that age, with family nearby, is a minor triumph.

I'd be surprised if Peter's new woman-friend could sort your house out. That would be a major triumph ...

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Dear Martin & Peter,

Thanks letting me know about your Mum passing. I hadn't heard the sad news. You, Peter and the rest of the family are in our thoughts.

I think it was wonderful that she could spend the last part of her life close to her family in a beautiful environment before slipping away. I have read some of the blog entries and can see Sheila was much loved by friends and family.

Take care

Regards ...

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Hello Martin and Peter

Thanks for putting us in the loop and our heartfelt sympathy.
Everyone should have a mum like Sheila ...

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I've only now received your email - I'm so sorry for you and your brother. I didn't get to know her really but it was always so nice to hear you talk about her because it was evident that you had a rare and wonderful relationship. This also reminds us ... that we must make a better effort to spend more time with our parents ...
Take care ...

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Ah Teds

You have been much in my thoughts in these days since you lost Sheila.

Although I am paid to spout words, my scribbled thoughts seem so feeble and so inadequate at this time. Encouraged, however, by your quite beautiful unfolding story of her last months, please let me add a little in tribute to dear Sheila.

Over so many decades she enriched so many lives.
My fond memories come largely from the 1960s.

Sheila was the ever welcoming host and amiable caterer for our endless rehearsals at your place. Sheila was the ever welcoming host and amiable caterer for our endless Wesley Three rehearsals at your place.

She was also our in-house perceptive and constructive critic as we quarried away at one of Martin's fiendish new arrangements (words by Peter, of course).

The William Street gardener will always be with me in a lovely rambling cottage yard. Knowledgeable and generous, she spread her beloved plants far and wide.

We are unlikely in our lifetimes to meet another friend so gracious, warm, wise, quietly learned and accomplished as your wonderful Sheila.

Thinking of you Martin, Peter, Robert and all your dear ones
Love
Keith (Conlon)

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To dear Martin,

Thank you for letting me know about your Mum, Sheila's, passing.

As briefly discussed on Wednesday night, I felt really sad to hear the news. I know it was a bit of a long time coming, but I figure that even if we prepare ourselves for the time of dying, it is still a shock, and a sad time for us. Our mothers and fathers are such an integral part of us, regardless of whether our relationships are good, bad or indifferent. And yours was good. So, my love and thoughts are with you and your children and grand-children, with Peter and Rob and all your respective friends and loved ones.

While not knowing Sheila well, I did know her for a long time, given that yours and my friendship is a long-standing one, even if we don't see each other that often. It always seemed to me that your Mum remembered who I was - or did a good act regardless - which was always very touching. You don't necessarily expect your friend's mother to remember all your friend's friends ... She was a gracious and beautiful lady, and hey, put up with all you lot. And loved you deeply. May peace be with her.

Much love ...

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Dear Peter & Martin (& Rob),

Somehow it seems appropriate to be writing this on Valentine's Day! For everyone loved Sheila. Peter, it was very thoughtful of you to ring and inform us of Sheila's passing before the notice appeared in "The Advertiser" - thank you for doing that. Sheila and Harry and Jerry were great neighbours, and although we didn't see a lot of them, they were always there, and came to be valued friends.

(We) enjoyed the opportunity to call on you at Kangaroo Valley last year and to see that idyllic spot where you and she live. She would have enjoyed spending her last years there. And now she's gone, but not forgotten. You were all wonderful sons to her. Please accept deepest love and sympathy from (us both) ...

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Dear Peter, Martin & Rob,

We will always remember Sheila's warmth and charm.

With sad best wishes ...

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Dear Robert, Peter, & Martin,

We are sad that Sheila has gone. We loved her and that love extended to Harry and the family.

From the days at Harcourt Gdns when the paddocks and trees were 'more important' than roads and houses Sheila would come through the back fence, make a little visit, leave a flower or a pot of jam - her face expressing friendliness and warmth.

I did not know many people: the area was new; I had a baby; I was a new mother and housewife. She was wonderful.

A friendship grew between our families. We enjoyed many times and activities together. We learnt of different attitudes, styles of living, more about music, the theatre, books, art - it was great!

We are very sad to hear of her passing - her spirit will be with us always - we loved her -

She was a dear and much beloved friend.

With Best Wishes ...

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To Dear Martin, Pete and Rob,

What a great Mum! Have such fond memories - enjoy the reminisce ...

Much love ...

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Hi there Martin
Andrew told me of Sheila's passing last weekend but my computer has been in repair shop until yesterday. I've had a look at the blog page and followed Sheila's struggle. I had no idea that a heart attack had knocked her around. I guess I still thought of her as an infallible ninety year old. I take my hat off to you and Peter and others for keeping Sheila comfortable in her home in, as you said, a beautiful place until the end.
My sympathy to you and all the family as I grieve the huge loss of a great lady. Over the years Sheila has been not only aunt but friend and foster parent (when Dad died). She wholly motivated me to quit smoking when she showed concern after Jerry died. And her passing is a reminder to me to live life to the fullest as she did like no one else I've known. My greatest regret of course is not having seen her in roughly seventeen years, but the memory lives on.
I would very much like to attend a gathering in Adelaide to celebrate her life. However it all depends on the timing.
My very best wishes ...

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This note brings my sincere words of comfort to you all. Sheila was a wonderful lady, full of kind thoughts and admired and loved by all who knew her. She was my very best friend during our 15 years in Adelaide. She helped me to settle down. My husband was taken ill during our first few years in Adelaide and before we had make many friends. He was rushed into hospital. I wa sitting alone, in the dark, feeling very sorry for myself, on the first night. Suddenly, there were car headlights in the drive down to our house - in came Sheila, with a basket. She said - "I know you don't know me well, but I can't let you be here all alone - I've brought a casserole and my nightdress. I'll sleep on the sofa, so don't worry any more"! And so began our long friendship.
I am sorry I did not get to Kangaroo Valley to see her once more. There were circumstances beyond my control.
I know Sheila loved the colour blue, so I am writing on one of my blue paintings ...

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I was sad to learn of Sheila's death. I had not been aware how frail she had become. She always had a tiny frame, but somehow it seemed she would last forever. Indeed I remember lots of comments that she would outlive you all - but she would have hated that!
Mothers endure beyond the grave. When I looked at the photos from Sheila's blog I see so many of her off-spring in her look - particularly her granddaughters.
Sheila was a mum in a million, it's hard to believe that only 18 months ago she was keeping vigil by Rob's bed without complaint and no doubt with all the worry a parent has for a child no matter their age. Her role as mum played to the end. What an example for all us mums!
A lucky family to have been adored by so doting a mum and a lucky mum to have had such loving sons.
I am sure she will be hugely missed by you all, and what a mighty effort it seems you all put in at the end of her life to make sure the road was not too rough.
We shall miss her perky smile and the way she could chuckle at a good joke or story. She was always interested in everything and everyone who met her it seemed to me ... and who will make the porridge now?!
We all send our love and thoughts and also feel lucky to have had the privilege of knowing Sheila, she always gave our children individual attention and time when we saw her. Hers was a life to celebrate!

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded. [Emerson]

and Sheila ... did!

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We make a living by what we get, we make a life from what we give. [Churchill]

A life well loved, dear Sheila - so many years, so many fine men in her life - (what) fine grandchildren and a wonderful family that she built. What a magnificent feat! In honouring her, nothing could ever surpass the way that you all took such care of her in her frail end-of-life time and that is truly magnificent. We think of you, send all our love ...

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Our sympathy and condolences for the passing of your mother, Sheila. We are sure you have many happy memories of growing up under her care and influence. You are fortunate to have shared the final period together in Kangaroo Valley ...

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Dear Martin,
Anni just said to me, 'Did you know Martin's mum had died?' (You wouldn't think we work most days in adjacent rooms, would you?)
So no, I didn't know, and belatedly send my condolences, also to Peter. I liked your mum a lot. It was always good to see her at concerts: her spirit of life, her curiosity about everything, her sense of humour. And that she produced the children she did -- such a bunch of caring ratbags -- is a lasting testimony to her. Good on you, Sheila!
Love ...

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oh i'm so sorry to hear the news... are you holding on ok? i know everyone's kinda prepared, but then it must be a difficult time no matter how well one's prepared! my thoughts and prayers are with you and everyone in the family.

it's a blessing to die at home surrounded by family and loved ones, and as you said sheila did live an extraordinary full and beautiful life. i'm gonna miss her too!

hang in there ... although sheila is in heaven, which is quite far away, the memory of her will be in our hearts always ...

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Dear Peter, Martin & Robert,

We were all saddened to learn of Sheila's recent death. On behalf of all the Tatlers, please accept our condolences on the loss of your dear mother.

Sheila was dearly loved by her fellow Tatlers, not least for her warmth, wonderful sense of humour, clever wit and love of life.

On a personal level, I have fond memories of Sheila visiting my mother and sharing their love of gardens over a cup of tea.

Sheila will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

With deepest sympathy ...

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Dear Martin and Peter,
I'm sorry to hear Sheila has gone, you must miss her very much. Although I only met her a few of times it seems she was always there with you in spirit, and you clearly had a special relationship with her. It must have been lovely for all of you to live together and share the last part of her life. She was certainly blessed to die at home, surrounded by love and beauty.
With love ...

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Dear Orphans,

Rob told me at Andrew's memorial that your Mum had died and said she died peacefully ... Perfect.

I remember her as a lady, in the truest sense, with a quiet grace and indomitable spirit.

in shared sadness ...

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Dear Rob and all the family,
Just received the news. Have been in Dar. for a few days. We're sure Sheila would want for you all to remember the wonderful lives she gave to you as the beautiful mother she was for you. We loved having her visit at Tortilla Flats and the older children will recall how they enjoyed "Kindergarten of the Air" when Sheila was the presenter. We all know that our time on earth is limited and peace in that time of departure is what we wish for, and I'm sure that is what Sheila had with her loved ones near, speaking and singing to her. She's at rest now. Love to you all ...

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Hey Martin. I would have loved to be there to celebrate the life of Sheila but am unfortunately tied up elsewhere. Wishing you and Peter and Rob a wondrous evening as is fitting for the occasion. My thoughts are there. Can i just add my memories of sharing a warm cuppa on one of sheila's mosaic tables by the grassy tennis court in adelaide. Such a lady! Much love ...

Sent from my iPhone

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Dear Rob

I want to say it was sad to hear of Sheila's death, and trust all was peaceful at the end. She was a wonderful, special person, and part of my live for as long as I can remember. I missed her when she went to NSW, especially the lovely chance meetings at Banana Boys over the fruit and vegetables! I look forward to the 'celebratory wake' here in Adelaide, as she was someone who contributed so much in so many quiet and gentle ways. She had a long and full life, but a mother will always be missed ...

With our love and prayers ...

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Dear Martin, Peter and Wes

(We) found out today about Sheila's passing earlier this month. We have been thinking of you all in recent months and often spoken to each other about Sheila and our few shared times with her. We enjoyed her humour and gentle, creative approach to life. She was ridiculously and unconditionally proud of you all ... a wonderful mother indeed.

Much love ...

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Dear Martin, Peter and Rob,

Please accept our deepest condolences for the passing of your wonderful mother ...

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Dear Martin,

I am writing on behalf of the University of Adelaide Women's Club to offer our sympathy to you and your brothers on the recent death of your mother. Sheila was a member of our club for 45 years, serving on the committee for 7 of those years, and as President in 1960.

On several occasions she was asked to give a short talk during our meetings. I remember two in particular. One was about her time as a presenter of the radio programme Kindergarten of the Air, and another was about her war-time experiences, being at sea with your father en route to Europe when war was declared.

Your mother was a charming and interesting lady and was missed by all our members when she moved to Kangaroo Valley.

Please accept our sincere condolences ...

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Dear Rob, Peter & Martin,

We were sorry to hear about Sheila's death and send our condolences for your loss. Sheila was a remarkable woman and we hope the happy memories you have of her will ease the time ahead ...

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Dear Peter,

I was so very sorry to hear ... of your mother's death. I think this was the first Christmas we did not correspond in all those years since we first met when she and Harry came over at the start of World War II.

She and I got on so well and though we met so infrequently it didn't seem to matter - we just took up where we left off!

I'm glad she was able to spend her last years with you and Martin. She had a very full life with so many interests.

She and I are about the same age, though I think she was a few months younger. I am 94.

I struggle along here on my own. I have just given up my car and miss it very much. I am expecting three more great-grandchildren this year - that will make it a total of 21!

My heartfelt sympathy to you and your brothers and all the members of the family. She will be sadly missed.

As ever ...

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To Peter, Martin & Rob,

With deepest sympathy to you all.

So sorry to hear about your mother. For me another family connection ended.

Sheila was my first cousin. My mother was her father's sister, and I've kept in touch with her all these years ...

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We send our love to you all as a flow on of Sheila's loving eyes, laugh and grace of spirit when we visited with Lois Mander-Jones. They were a wonderful pair of friends, and their chortling is probably making micro waves across the universe of heavens. It is wonderful that you all had each other ...

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Dear Rob, I have just heard that Sheila died and I wanted to say I am thinking of you and Martin and Peter at this time as you mourn, but also I would think celebrate hugely a full and wonderful life for so many years (I do not know how her health was in the last few years). I think you must have heard from so many people from different generations whose lives have been inspired by her. She is for me one of a handful of people from my parent's generation whose extraordinary qualities influenced me deeply - her rare combination of gentleness and quiet authority, a strong sense of direction, an ever-flowing creativity and always sensing with insight what those with her were thinking and feeling ...

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Dear Martin, Peter and Rob,

Thank you for your kind invitation to Sheila's last party. Mike and I are disappointed that we won't be able to attend (we'll be in Adelaide).

We didn't know Sheila well, but it was always a pleasure to have a quick chat when we met at a local event. I regret that we didn't get to know her better - she was obviously quite a woman (despite the legacy occasionally evidenced by her offspring resident in KV....).

We wish you well for tomorrow. I imagine Sheila would have liked to be there, and in fact she will be!

We'll be thinking of you all.

Warmest regards ...

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Dear Rob, Peter & Martin,

Life will never be the same again. Although I didn't see a lot of Sheila in the last few years, I knew she was there. That seemed to make everything alright somehow. I was once asked if I could be like anyone in the world, who would I choose? I answered with "My Auntie Sheila." You must be very proud to have had such a wonderfuk Mum.

Sheila & Harry always made me feel welcome - being so much younger than all my cousins etc - I'm sure I was a nuisance, but they always made a bit of a fuss, which I really appreciated. Sheila knew I loved Borsch & often had it made when we stayed. And I'll never smell marmalade without thinking of her.

How lucky you were to have her with you in her final years.

We have been thinking of you all & hope to see you in Adelaide in a couple of months. Take care.

Love ...

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Dear Peter,

It was good of you to tell me the sad news about Sheila - thank you. But of course it is sad for us who are left behind, no matter how long and wonderful her life had been. I'm sure you all miss her, and I know she loved all of you. I have fond memories of her and Harry and Jeremy (as a new baby!) in the 1940s when they stayed with us at the beginning of the war. And it was they who took me to my first-ever "real" concert (a Beethoven symphony - which? and what else?) and encouraged me to learn the piano....

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Dear Martin

I was so sorry to hear about your mother, and I send sincere sympathy to you and all your family.

One of my earliest memories, when I must have been about 4, is of going to the regular tennis afternoon with my mother at your former home in Adelaide. My parents, and all of our family, admired your mother very much. I'm sure that many people will miss her.

I am glad that I was able to speak to her fairly recently.

With best wishes

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Dear Martin,
Anni just said to me, 'Did you know Martin's mum had died?' (You wouldn't think we work most days in adjacent rooms, would you?)
So no, I didn't know, and belatedly send my condolences, also to Peter. I liked your mum a lot. It was always good to see her at concerts: her spirit of life, her curiosity about everything, her sense of humour. And that she produced the children she did -- such a bunch of caring ratbags -- is a lasting testimony to her. Good on you, Sheila!
Love,

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To the Wesley-Smith family

Dear Peter, Martin & Rob,

It is with much sadness that you bring us the news of Sheila passing away.

We have nothing but kindness in our hearts for the beautiful woman that put so much love into the house we call home.

Our thoughts are with you all in your time of loss.

Kind regards ...

Rest peacefully, Sheila xx

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